Wednesday, September 14, 2016

Nasalisihan ni Kumpare

Si Bruno ay masayang umuwi kahapon galing sa sabong, uwi-uwi ang P20,000.00 na panalo niya..

Lunes ay back to work na naman siya. Madami ng gawa at mainit ang kanyang ulo.. Ang aga-aga ay tumawag pa ang pareng Jigo niya at sinisingil siya sa utang niya na P20,000.00.

Tang-ina mo, ang aga-aga, lunes na lunes ay nambubuwisit ka eh.. Sige, sige, dumaan ka sa bahay at may iniwan ako kay misis. Kunin mo nang lahat iyon at bayad na ako sa iyo ha, demonyo, hudas..!

Ganyan lang talaga magmura si Bruno pero best friend niya itong si Jigo. Si Jigo ay binata pa kaya mapera. Matagal na niyang pinagnanasahan ang maganda at seksing misis ng best friend niyang si Bruno na si Laura. Malibog itong si Jigo na isang tambay na anak mayaman.

Habang nasa daan at papunta sa bahay ng mag-asawang Bruno at Laura ay naka-isip siya ng isang malisyosong biro. Nagulat pa si Laura sa biglang pagdating ni Jigo, pinatuloy nito ang kaibigan ng asawa. Matagal na rin niyang kilala si Jigo at alam niyang mayroong malaking pagkaka-utang ang kanyang asawa dito.

Noong dalaga pa lang siya ay niligawan din siya ni Jigo. Type niya rin si Jigo dahil sa pagka-hunk nito pero ang mas responsableng si Bruno ang pinili niyang pakasalan. Naging bestman pa nila sa kasal si Jigo.

Mag-soft drinks ka muna Jigo.. Alok ni Laura sabay yuko paglapag ng bote sa lamesa sa sala na nasa harap lang ni Jigo.

Mabilis ang mga mata ni Jigo at huling-huli niya ang eksenang ito, nahuli din ng mga mata niya ang boobs ni Laura na hindi na naisip mag-suot ng bra sa ilalim ng ng sandong maluwag. Dito pa lang ay tinigasan na si Jigo.

Ano nga pala ang sadya mo, bakit bigla kang napadaan.

Ano.. Aaaah.. Tumawag ako kay pareng Bruno kanina para singilin siya sa utang ninyo..

Ayaw pa sanang ibayad ni Luara ang iniwang pera ni Bruno dahil kapos pa sila ng pambayad sa tuition ng mga anak at renta sa bahay kaya nakiusap ito na kung puwede ay sa pasko ng lang sa bonus sila magbayad.

Biglang pumasok sa isip ni Jigo na haluan ng biro ang seryosong usapan. Sinabi ni Bruno na pumunta raw ako dito at magpapa-ano ka sa akin para maka-bayad kayo sa utang.

Nabigla si Laura at manula ang mukha sa gulat. Natigilan ng mga ilang segundo bago nakasagot..g*g* ka ba..? Hindi iyan gagawin ng mister ko..

Kahit tawagan mo pa siya.. Ang sabi ni Jigo.

At tinungo ni Laura ang telepono at idinayal ang numero ng office ng asawa..

Hello..! Sa kabilang linya ay nabosesan agad ni Bruno ang kabiyak at pasigaw na sinabing.. Nandiyan na ba si Jigo..? Ibigay mo na ang kailangan niya para bayad na tayo sa kanya sa utang..! Ganyan talaga si Bruno pag nasa trabaho, ayaw nai-istorbo sa sobrang subsob sa trabaho.

Nabigla si Laura at nabitiwan pa ang telepono. Gusto pa sana niyang linawin ang mga bagay-bagay pero ng maibalik na niya sa tenga ang telepono ay naibaba na ni Bruno ang teleponp sa kabilang linya.

Tulalang ibinaba ng seksing misis ang telepono at bumalik sa set sa sala kung saan naghihintay ang cool na cool na palabirong si Jigo. Nanlulumong umupo ang misis sa kanan ni Jigo sa mahabang set. Isinandal ang likod at napatingala na lang sa kisame sa pag-iisip.

Totoo ba ang narinig niya sa telepono. Mabilis ang takbo ng kangyang isip, nalilito siya. Binasag lang ni Jigo ang katahimikan sabay sabing..

Sige na Laura.. Please.. Kailangan ko lang ng napaka sarap mong katawan.. Alam mo namang matagal na kitang gusto eh.. Hindi mo lang ako pinapansin..

katawan ang kailangan ni Jigo kaya iyon ang kailangang ibigay ni Laura ayon sa sinabi ni Bruno sa telepono. At pagkatapos noon bayad na sila sa utang nila. Ang mga sinabi ni Jigo ay biro lang pero kung tototohanin ay mas ok..

Kaya niyang magbiro ng ganoon sa mag-asawang Bruno at Laura dahil matagal na silang magka-kaibigan at kilalang-kilala ng mag-asawa ang pagka-bastos magbiro ni Jigo.

Pero si Laura ay talagang nalito na ang isip at naghi-hintay na lang ng mga susunod na mangyayari. Naisip na lang niya na sobrang nagipit na ang kanyang mister at napapagod na sa pagkayod.

Walang maitulong sa paghahanap buhay ang seksing misis dahil nasa bahay lang siya. Iyon lang ang papel niya, ang mag-alaga ng mga bata, bantayan ang bahay para hindi manakawan at hintayin ang pag-uwi ng mga anak mula eskwela at ng mister na pagod mula sa trabaho.

Kung mayroon lang siyang magagawa ay tutulong siya. Ito na ng pagkakataon ng seksing misis na makatulong sa asawa kapalit ng pagpa-paubaya ng kanyang katawan sa kaibigan.

Tumayo si Jigo at ini-lock ang pinto. Pagkatapos ay siniguro pang nakasara ang kurtina sa harap ng bahay. Naupo siya ulit sa tabi ng misis ng pareng Bruno niya. Naka-pikit ang mga mata ni Laura ng sabihing tapusin natin agad ito.

Hinalikan ni Jigo sa labi si Laura pero ayaw gumanti ng halik ang seksing misis. Nag-tanggal pa ng wedding ring ang misis.. Sa pagkakataong ito ay kailangan muna niyang kalimutan ang sinumpaan sa kasal sa asawa.

Sinapo ng malibog na kaibigan ang kanyang mga s*s* sa ibabaw ng kanyang sando. Naramdaman ni Jigo ang matitigas na utong ng misis. Pinisil-pisil pa niya iyon habang nilalamas ang mga malulusog na s*s*.

Aahhh..

Nag-umpisa ng mapasinghap ang misis ng kaibigan ni Jigo. Inalis ni Jigo ang sando ni misis. Doon niya unang napagmasdan ang kanyang katawan ng malapitan. Tayung-tayo ang kanyang mga s*s*. Hindi siya kalakihan pero pink na pink at ang tigas ng kaniyang utong.

Napaka-ganda pa rin ng kanyang katawan kahit may dalawang anak na. Makinis, maputi at napaka-seksi. Sa nakikita pa lang niya ay muntik na siyang labasan. Naramdaman niyang nag-uumpisa ng tumulo ang kanyang pre-cum. Muli niyang sinapo ang mga s*s* ng kanyang kumare. Sinupsop niya ang utong nito..

Umphhh.. Pigil ang ungol ni Laura..

Alam ni Jigong pinipigilan niyang mapa-ungol. Hindi natin alam kung nahihiya lamang siya o ayaw niyang malaman ng kumpare na nag-eenjoy na siya. Bumaba ang kamay ni Jigo sa kanyang panty. Sinalat niya ang kanyang hiwa sa ibabaw nito. Sa bandang ilalim ay mayroon ng wet spot.

Nalilibugan na siyang talaga. Hindi na pinagtagal ni Jigo at inalis na rin niya kpati panty ng kumare niya. Tuloy siya sa pagsupsop sa mga s*s* habang sinasalat niya puke ng kumare niya. Hindi pa nakuntento ay ipinasok na niya ang daliri niya sa basang basa na puke ni Laura..

Oohhh.. Hindi na napigilang umungol ni Laura.

Naumpisa na siyang fingerin ito habang hinahalikan ang buo niyang katawan. Bumaba ang halik ni Jigo sa kanyang puke. Ginamit ni Jigo ang isang kamay upang ilabas ang kanyang tingil sabay dila doon.

Aahhh.. Oohhh.. Ungol ni Laura.

Napapasara ang kanyang hita sa ginagawa ng kaibigan. Naiipit ang ulo ni Jigo pero OK lang dahil napaka-sarap ng kinakain niya..

Aahhhh.. Jigo.. Lalabasan na akohhh.. Ungol niya..

Hindi niya alam kung saan mapapakapit. Kung saan-saan pumupunta ang kanyang kamay hanggang sa mapunta iyon sa ulo ni Jigo..

Ayan nahhh.. Paungol na sabi niya..

Napasabunot siya sa buhok ng kaibigan. Nag-umpisang tumulo ang kanyang katas na dinilaan lahat ni Jigo na parang uhaw na sangol na nilulunok bawat patak. Nanginginig-nginig pa ang kangyang katawan sa ginawa sa kanyang iyon.

Tama na Jigo.. Nangingilo na ako.. Ang sabi niya..

Naupo si Jigo sa tabi niya.. Kinalas niya ang sinturon at ibinaba ang zipper.. Dinukot niya ang t*t* sa loob ng brief.. Nanlaki ang mga mata ng misis nang makita ang t*t* ng kumpare..

Ang laki ng t*t* mo.. Ang sabi niya..

Six inches lang iyan.. Nakangising sabi ng binata..

Pero mas mahaba at mas mataba iyon kaysa sa t*t* ni Bruno at natitigilan niyang sabi..

Nag-tanggal na ng pantalon ang binata at kinarga papasok ng kuwarto ng mag-asawa ang misis ng kaibigan. Inihiga niya sa kama ang nag-iinit ng misis. Napa-kagat labi ang malibog na misis ng makita ng hubarin ni Jigo ang brief niya..

Ang laki talaga.. sambit pa niyang hindi maalis ang tingin sa naka-tirik na ari ng binata.

Lumapit ang binata sa misis at sinalubong siya ng halik sabay sunggab sa matigas ng t*t* nito. at sabay himas sa nangangalit na titi ng kumpare nilang si Jigo habaang naghahalikan sila at malikot ang kanang kamay ni Jigo lumalamas sa kanyang s*s*.

Pinahiga ni Laura ang binata at binigyan ng hand-job ang kaibigan. Sarap na sarap siya sa kanyang ginagawang pagtaas-baba ng naka-hawak na kamay sa matigas at mahabang ari. Isinubo niya ang t*t* nito at blow-job naman ang ibinigay sa kaibigan..

May pagkakataon pang naduwal siya ng subukan niyang isubo ng malalim ang mahabang t*t* nito habang ang kamay naman ni Jigo ay walang tigil sa pag lalaro sa puke ni Laura.

Aahhh.. Ang sarap mong tsumupa Laura!

Kakaiba ang pakiramdam at napapa-ungol ang binata. Sulit ang gagawin ni Jigo, buburahin niya ang utang ng mag-asawa makantot lang ang matagal na niyang pinagnanasahang asawa ng kaibigan..

Tumigil sa pag-blow-job sa kanya ang malibog na misis at tumihaya sa kama. Hudyat na iyon na gusto na ni Laura ng kantot kaya pumuwesto na si Jigo sa pagitan ng mga hita ng misis at itinutok sa bukana ang sandata..

Isang ulos lang at pasok na pasok kaagad ang mahaba niyang ari sa masikip pa rin pero madulas na p*k* ng misis. Nag-umpisa mag-pump ang Jigo sa madulas na p*k*, sa una ay mabagal, ninanamnam ang sarap ng bawat pagbayo.

Sobra na ang dulas ang naglalawang p*k* ng misis kayat ginaganahang bilisan ni Jigo ang pagbayo habang tumutunog-tunog pa ang paglabas-masok ng malaking t*t* niya sa basang-basang p*k* ni Laura.

Nangawit na yata si Jigo sa pabagbayo sa ibabaw ng misis kaya siya naman ang humiga ng patihaya. Hinalikan pa siya sa labi ng katalik na babaing asawa ng iba bago umupo at itinututok ang matabang b*r*t sa kangyang biyak..

Unti -unti siyang naupo at unti-unti ring bumaon ang mahabang t*t* ng binata sa loob ng p*k* niya.. Napaka-sikip ng p*k* ni Laura..

Oohhh.. Ang lakiii.. Ramdam na ramdam ko sa loob ng p*k* kohhh.. Paungol na sabi ni Laura na nag-uumpisa ng magtaas-baba.

Yumuko pa ang misis para maabot ng mga labi ng binata ang mga s*s* niya habang kuma-kabayo sa ibabaw. Si Laura naman ay halos mabaliw sa sarap na nararamdaman..

Ang sarapphhh.. Ungol niya habang pinagmasmasdan ang pagsuso sa kanya ng binatang kaibigan.. Ikaw pa lang ang pangalawang naka-pasok sa p*k* ko.. Ang sabi pa niya..

Lalo pang nalibugan ang Jigo sa narinig. Palakas ng palakas ang kanyang mga ungol. Nakakatakot pa nga dahil baka marinig noong nasa kabilang apartment ang ungol nito.

Ayan na naman akohhh.. Ungol niya..

Tumigil siya sa paggalaw.. Nilabasan siyang muli.. Naramdaman ni Jigo ang pagbalot ng katas ni Laura sa kanyang t*t* at ang pagpintig-pintig ng kanyang p*k*..

Oohhh.. Ungol niya habang ninanamnam ang sarap..

Ini-angat siya at pinatuwad siya ni Jigo. Ibinaon ulit nito ang malaking t*t* sa naglalawa niyang p*k*. Kahit na basang-basa na ay masikip pa rin ang p*k* ni Laura. Nag-umpisa siyang torohin ito. Sa ganitong posisyon ay naibabaon niya ng sagad ang mahabang t*t* sa p*k* ni Laura..

Aahhh.. Aahhh.. Sige pahhh.. Ungol ni Laura.. Kantutin mo pa ako ng malaking t*t* moohhh.. Dagdag pa niya.

Dahil sa mga sinasabi niya ay ibayong sarap ang naramdaman ng binatang malapit nang labasan.

Malapit na ako.. Ang sabi ni Jigo sa kanya..

Oohhh.. Sigehhh.. Ako rin.. Lalabasan na naman akoohh.. Sabay tayoohhh.. Sagot niya.. Iputok mo sa loob koohh.. Gusto kong punuin mo ako ng katas moohhh.. Ang sabi pa niya..

Hindi na nga nakapag-pigil ang binata at isinagad ang baon ng sandata niya hanggang labasan ito. Nilabasan rin si Laura ng maramdaman ang pagtalsik ng katas ng binata sa loob ng kanyang p*k*..

Oohhh.. Ang sarap.. Ang sabi niya sabay halik sa kaibigan ng asawa..

Napatingin si Laura sa wall clock at biglang naaalalang malapit ng dumating ang mga anak niya mula sa eskwela. Dali-daling nagbihis ang dalawa at nagpa-alam na rin si Jigo. Kakaalis lang nito ng dumating ang mga bata.

Naging abala na rin na naman si Laura sa pag-aasikaso sa mga anak. Paminsan-minsan ay kinurot-kurot pa niya ang sarili niya pag naiisip niya ang nangyari. Panaginip lang ba iyon, paanong nangyaring ibigay niya ang sarili niya sa ibang lalake makabayad lang sa kanilang utang.

At papaanong pinayagan ng asawa niya na kantutin siya ng kanilang kaibigan bilang kabayaran ng P20,000 na utang. Mabilis ang mga oras at dumating na ang Bruno ng mga 10:00 pm tulog na mga bata .

Tahimik nagsalo ng kahupan ang mag-asawa sa hapang kainan, walang imikan. Sa isip ni Bruno ay trabaho pa rin ang laman. Samantalang ang sa kay Laura ay ang malaking katanungan, mahal pa ba siya ng kanyang asawa. Bakit ipinambayad lang siya sa utang nito..

Naghahanap lang siya ng tamang timing para pag-usapan ang nangyari. Hanggang sa magulat si Laura.. Nag-ring ang phone nila. Pinuntahan niya ito at ang nasa kabilang linya ay si Jigo..

Hello..! Laura.. Pasensya ka na kanina ha.. Sinamantala ko ang kahinaan mo.. Sana ay patawarin mo ako.. Hindi totoong pinapunta ako ni Bruno diyan sa inyo para kantutin kita.. Mahal na mahal ka ng mister mo at hindi siya papayag na mangyari iyon. Pero iyong utang ninyo sa akin ay huwag mo nang bayaran..

Itago mo na lang iyong P20000. Sa iyo na iyan para kung mayroon kang gustong bilhin ay mayroon kang magagamit. Pero huwag na huwag mong sabihin kay Bruno ang nangyari, papatayin niya tayo..

Napa-ngiti lang si Laura.. Naisip niya na naisahan siya ng kaibigan. Pero okey lang.. Nasarapan naman siya eh, at nagkaroon pa siya ng pera. Huhugasan na lang niya ng mabuti ang pekpek niya at puwede na naman iyon para kay Bruno mamaya.

Thursday, September 8, 2016

I Cheated On My Husband

I Love Cheating On My Husband Why? Because it's easy and fun. He gets up like most suckers, works his butt off from 8am to 5pm, and comes home just in time for his trophy wife to cook him a nice meal and eventually, the most boring missionary sex a woman could hope for. I can't really complain, i mean he is good to me, he just can't satisfy me. I have a few boyfriends that satisfy me sexually. God it feels so good to finally tell people this! I am not stupid like most women that cheat and tell their "close" friends. Listen ladies, if you want to cheat and never get caught, keep your mouth shut.

Men, Well Most, Are Idiots, The funny part is he thinks he is the "man" and I am some poor helpless woman at home that "needs" him. God forbid I would be helpless without his upper middle class salary. It's ok, but nothing to brag about.

So I guess I owe you a story. I will talk about the first time I cheated. It was actually our wedding night. Believe it or not it's true. You see, when I met my husband a few years before we got married, I was 25 and getting up there. I knew I needed security and I needed it now before I hit 30 and became old. So I settled for him because he was a good balance. Decent job, decent looking, and most important of all, he worshiped me. I could have easily found someone much hotter, but it's tough to find a decent looking guy with a stable job. Most men out there are either ugly and rich, or good looking and poor.

So, on our wedding night, we had great reception going. People enjoying themselves. Most of our friends are your average boring social crowd, but we each have a few friends that think they are still in their early 20's. Take for example one of my husband's "friends". We will call him "Jake". Now Jake is 28 but thinks he's 21. However, he does look it. He sleeps around with a lot of college girls. Always clubbing, partying. The 3-4 times our social groups got together he's made a few passes at me, and i let him know discretely that I found him sexy the last time we met before the wedding. He is very handsome. Tall, athletic, big arms, gorgeous blue eyes. We were at the bar each trying to get a drink, while the rest of the gang is scurrying about, half drunk. He told me that he's always wanted me and that if I was not marrying his friend he'd be all over me. I told him i'd let him do as he pleases...but in another life, giggled and left him hanging.

Fast forward to the wedding, it's late. 1am and my husband is very drunk. He's at the head table with a few childhood friends drunk as well. Half of the guests have left, and the other half are still socializing. I make my way to the ladies room outside the hall and out comes Jake from the mens room. He smiles at me, looks at my body head to toe, and then congratulates me AGAIN and hugs me. I hug him back, and he lingers. He starts to get hard and I look down and see he's probably an 8 incher. My husband is average at 5, and I just love a big penis. Instantly I get turned on and tell him if he told me about this earlier I would have obliged to his request before I got married. He smiled and I left him and smacked his *** on the way into the washroom. I went in and peed and after I flushed i began washing my hands and Jake walked in. I looked over at him and smiled and told him he must be lost. I have never seen a man so determined. He walked right up to me without saying a word and grabbed my hand and led me into the stall. I went with it. I was so turned on I did not care one bit who came thru that door.

 BATANG HAMOGInside the stall we kissed passionately. He reached under my dress and ripped aside my panties and began fingering me. I was so wet. At the same time he unzipped his pants and I helped him remove his belt. I grabbed my dress and held it up so it did not drape down. I was a little conscious, just a little ;) He then slid inside me. I was so turned on i will never forget that feeling of his big penis sliding deep inside me. The best sex is the forbidden encounters. This is probably the worst thing he could ever do to his friend but he's a guy and guy's are pigs. I don't care what you think your husband, brother, boyfriend is, they are all pigs. Anyways Jake held me in his arms, and i had my legs wrapped around him and he pumped hard into me against the stall. After literally 30 seconds he started to climax. This sent me over the edge and I came as he did.

With lightning speed and pulled up his pants, grinned at me, kissed me, and left. I stayed in the stall and had to put toilet paper on my panties so his ***** wouldn't leak all over my panties. The whole event was less then 5 minutes. After I cleaned up I walked back to my husbands table, and didn't skip a beat.

I will share more true stories when I get time. My husband is on a trip but will be home later Sunday. Next time I will tell all of you what I did this weekend while he was gone. Cheers, xo, D.

Wednesday, May 25, 2016

Betrayal is in the eye of the beholder

Often, people who have close extramarital relationships feel perfectly justified as long as it isn’t sexual. Then there is no betrayal, no threat to the marriage. However, if their spouses think otherwise and feel hurt, threatened or emotionally abandoned, it becomes a marital problem. And as with any marital problem, partners need to protect each other’s feelings. This means that the emotionally involved partner should honor the feelings of his or her spouse whether he or she agrees with or understands it completely. Mutual caretaking is what loving relationships are all about. It’s essential to remember that betrayal is unquestionably in the eye of the beholder.

“I don’t know why you’re so uptight. He and I are just friends.” “We never discuss anything personal.” “There’s nothing wrong with my having friends of the opposite sex.” “No matter what you think, our relationship is not sexual, so quit talking to me about it. I don’t want to discuss it anymore.” “What am I supposed to do, stop interacting with him? I work with him.” “I can’t fire her. She hasn’t doesn’t anything wrong.” “Your suspicion is going to kill our relationship.”

Does any of this sound familiar? Does your spouse have a relationship with someone that makes you feel uncomfortable? He or she may flatly deny any inappropriate interactions. You can’t help but wonder whether the relationship is physical and your thoughts have been driving you crazy. You try to tell yourself that sex, touching or kissing isn’t part of what they do together, but your instincts say something else.

More often than not, you feel anxious, depressed and angry. You feel incredibly deceived. You have started doing things you never dreamed of — snooping, accessing private emails, phone records and credit card bills. You search your spouse’s computer or phone for any telltale signs that something is amiss.

Then it happens. You discover personal emails. Too personal. Or a series of late night calls. Maybe the person’s name appears on your spouse’s buddy list. And although some of the exchanges are work-related, there’s more than a tinge of familiarity. Your heart beats. You’re concerned.

You start questioning your spouse. She or he swears that nothing physical is going on and after much convincing, you want to believe it. Yet you can’t forget that there are the lunches, after-hour meetings and intimate conversations. You remember something you read about “emotional affairs” and you now feel certain that your spouse is right smack dab in the middle of one.

So you tell your spouse of your concern. You’re extremely unhappy about that relationship. You don’t like it one bit. “It might not be physical,” you tell your spouse, but you find it extremely threatening. You don’t want your spouse being intimate with another person in any way, shape or form. It hurts and you consider it betrayal.

Your spouse becomes defensive and insists that nothing inappropriate is going on. “I know my boundaries. I am not having an affair, so you’re wrong and I want you to stop nagging me about this. You’re overreacting.”

But are you?

In the three decades that I have been specializing in couples’ therapy, I have watched the destruction caused by emotional affairs. Even if two people are not engaged in a physical relationship, the emotional attachment can threaten the very foundation and fabric of the marriage. Here are a few reasons why:

Having close “friends” can be a slippery slope.
Here’s an example: A completely innocent meeting after work with co-workers may result in two people becoming excited about a mutual project. They end up spending a great deal of time together at work and the relationship becomes increasingly comfortable and familiar. Soon, they start having lunches together and when the work load increases, there are more demands on their time and efforts to complete the project. They stay later at work and go out to dinner.

Eventually, conversations shift from business to life outside work. Over time, these talks get more and more personal. Occasionally, people discover that they can talk about certain subjects with their co-worker that they cannot talk about with their spouses. An intimate bond begins to form.

Then, conversations become even more intimate. Frequently, they share their unhappiness with their own marriages. They commiserate and validate each others’ feelings and become confidantes. Their communication defines their relationship as special and separate from their respective marriages.

The relationship may get physical at this point. But even if it doesn’t, the real nature of the relationship is kept secret. Secrets place marriages at risk of divorce.

As you can see by this example, the relationship started out completely innocent. But the small daily choices they made led to a connection that wasn’t so innocent.

An emotional affair takes time and energy away from marriage.
There is just so much time in a day, and people have finite energy in their lives. If the focus in one’s life is the “other” person, time and energy are drained from the marriage. Plus, if a partner is getting emotional needs met outside the marriage, there is little need to connect at home. This leads to emotional distance and growing apart. Marriages are living things and they require attention.

Emotional affairs may be misconstrued.
Sometimes, one person is more emotionally involved in the relationship than the other. Perhaps he or she is hoping that the emotional relationship will flourish into something even more meaningful. That person might even be hoping that the other will eventually leave his or her marriage and become involved on a very deep level. This can happen without the other person’s awareness. Their intentions might be pure — to help out a person in distress, to be a loyal friend, or to simply have a fulfilling platonic, appropriate relationship. But one can never predict how the other person interprets interactions and exchanges. To avoid misunderstandings of any sort, it is essential to have boundaries in relationships outside marriage. This way, no one will be hurt or misled.

If your spouse is having an emotional affair, stop nagging, spying or haranguing. I wrote this post for you to give to your partner. It may or may not alter your spouse’s behavior, but it least it will be food for thought.

And if you are someone whose spouse is complaining about a relationship you may be having, taking your spouse’s feelings into account will make life much more pleasant for you and it just might save your marriage!

Friday, October 2, 2015

Tempted Wife

Actually had a period of close to 2 months without any contact. I have to say, during that time there was not a single day that I did not think about him. When he finally did call, out of the blue, I was overwhelmed with emotion that I just about fell to my knees. He was still feeling the same way as before. So was I. His feelings did not wear off nor did they fade away. Neither did mine. In fact, they somehow grew stronger.

You need to believe me when I say that all this time, Other Guy and I have never even kissed. Sure in my mind I've kissed him a thousand times and made love to him a hundred times more. But in real life, I'm sad to say that I have not. And I'm relieved to a certain extent as well. Relieved because I fear that if a kiss should ever happen, a Pandora's Box will open and I don't think I'd be prepared to deal with that.

When I did finally see Other Guy after our time apart, I wanted to kiss him so badly. En route to meet him, I imagined myself just planting one on him the second I laid eyes on him. But when we were face to face, I chickened out. He asked for a kiss and I said yes. When he leaned in for it, I got paralyzed and kept my mouth practically closed. His lips parted slightly as he was going one way, but I was not following. It wasn't awkward or weird. It was simply understood that that was not going to happen at this time.

Immediately after though, I wished I had the guts to ask Other Guy to do it over. I wanted to redo it so that my mouth could match his. But I didn't ask because even though I wanted to go there, I was afraid to go there. Ever since that attempt, I keep thinking about wanting to redo it. His lips were soft. Much fuller on the mouth than they appear on his face. I want to feel them again. Just one more time. Alas I haven't seen him since that day. We've spoken plenty, but not face to face. Probably a good thing in the long run.

The thing is, if I ever got a chance to redo the kiss - and it is inevitable that at some point, that day will arrive - I'm not sure I'd be brave enough to actually "kiss" kiss him. I'm chicken shit because as I said before, that kiss would be the first step down a slippery slope of getting physical with a man other than my husband. But there's another reason as well, one that I'm slightly embarrassed to admit: I have not kissed another man in over a decade and I am so scared that I can't kiss properly anymore! Not like that anyways. I mean, my husband and I don't even kiss that way anymore! What if I'm a horrible kisser? What if Other Guy thinks I'm a horrible kisser? Is kissing like riding a bicycle? What if I'm so rusty I won't remember?

Can make a confession? When I made love to my husband the first time since falling for Other Guy, I cried afterwards. My dear Husband fell asleep and there I was, bawling because I felt like I had just made love to the wrong guy. It is the first time I have ever felt such a feeling post-sex. Oh sure he's the right husband, the right father, the right so-many-things. But just not the right soul for my soul. I was filled with such a sadness after our lovemaking. It should have been Other Guy, I kept thinking through the tears.

This love that Other Guy and I feel for each other - it predates us. It was there before we were born. I know it because I feel it. Other Guy and I have something that I do not have with my Husband. I wish I had better insight into this, but all I have is a feeling that is guiding me. There is no concrete or tangible proof, otherwise.

Here's the thing. I don't want to trade one guy for another. It would just be bad karma to do so. Bad, bad, bad, bad, bad, all around. I'm not stupid to think you can just upgrade husbands. This is not trading in one model for a newer, shinier version. Because even the shinny version dulls eventually, I understand that. Plus, I like the model I have. It's consistent, reliable, good to me and loves me. Plus, since I've never put my own identity in another man, I can assure you that I'm not looking for a better husband, a better father, a better provider or a better anything. I have found all these things in my own Husband years ago. We have a heart to heart connection, Husband and I. It's deep. It's loving. But it's not a soul to soul connection. That belongs with Other Guy.

I did not ask the Universe to meet Other Guy. I did not give off an "I am available" vibe when Other Guy and I first met. I was just doing my everyday everything when this love crashed down on me like a meteor falling from the sky. I have tried to turn away from it. I have tried to ignore it. It just gets bigger when I do that.

I feel a need, a pull, a duty, a desire to keep exploring this thing with Other Guy because there is some reason for us to have been thrown together like this. If I feel if I abort this mission, so to speak, there will be emotional repercussions for me. But I know if I cheat on my husband, there will also be emotional repercussions. So I'm screwed either way.

Thursday, January 29, 2015

Teacher's Wife

Ang galing mo talaga. You topped the exams once more. At this rate you will be graduating at the top of your class”, Professor Gino excitedly exclaimed shaking James Uy’s hands.

“Thanks po , Sir. Magaling ang teacher eh , mana lang ata ako sa iyo”, James gladly acknowledged.

James Uy was the school’s pride. 16 years old , about 5′9″ in height, well-built as an athlete, the basketball team’s starting point guard. A very attractive young man. What made him a rare breed from most athletes was his consistency to top his academics.

It wasn’t a surprise that girls in his school would go gaga over him .

Prof. Gino had been his mentor , his confidante – mathematics teacher and coach of the school’s basketball team.

Dahil sa closeness ng dalawa James Uy was like a member of Prof. Gino’s family. James would dine even sleep at Prof. Gino’s abode often.

Dito nya nakilala ang 15 -year- old daughter ni prof. Gino na si Sai .

Sai was from a different school , an attractive young woman in her own right. Maganda , matalino at hindi maarte as someone you would expect from an accomplished teener.

Natuwa naman si Prof. Gino , lalo na ng malaman niya na naging magsyota na si James at Sai.

Sylvia was Prof. Gino’s wife, already in her early forties, dati rin teacher , but after prof. gino’s prodding , na kumbinse na rin to be a full time housewife. sylvia was like an older version of sai , maganda , matangkad , at kapunapuna ang hubog ng kanyang katawan. MILF of everyone’s wet dreams ika nga.

Minsan after ng practice niyaya ni Prof. Gino si James na doon na magdinner sa bahay nila , tuwang tuwa naman si Sai. alam niya kasi na maluwag and daddy niya kay james , sobra kasi ang tiwala niya dito. may mga panahon na rin na sila lang dalawa ni James ang naiiwan sa bahay , at dahil parehong bata at mapusok , nagawa na rin nila ang magpetting , necking, touching – maliban lang sa aktwal na pagtatalik.

Dun nga nagdinner si James. after the usual table conversations , nagpasya na ang magasawang Prof. Gino at Sylvia na mauna na sa kwarto. Nasanay na rin kasi ang magasawa na iwanan ang nagiisa nilang anak sa sala everytime dadalaw si James.

Nakapangbahay lang si Sai sa panahon na iyon , isang maikling cotton skirt at manipis na sando , di na siya nagbra , alam niya rin kasi kung saan hahantong ang gabing yun..

Pinatay ni Sai ang ilaw sa sala at manonood sila ng DVD ni James. Isang old movie ni Antonio banderas at Angelina Jolie . Kasisimula pa lang ng palabas , naglaplapan na ang magsing-irog.

“Babe , sigurado ka ba na hindi na lalabas si Prof”, tanong ni James na ngayon ay simula ng nag-iinit.

“Wag mong alalahanin yun, di na lalabas yun , halika nga dito …umppphhh”, hinalikan ni Sai si James sa mga labi nito , sabay pasok ng kamay niya sa loob ng basketball shorts nito…shit ka babe , ang tigas na pala nito…” , inilabas niya ang nagpupumiglas na dambuhalang titi ni james na humigit kumulang anim na pulgada ang sukat. Napapigil hininga naman si James sa sarap na nadarama.

Hindi na bago sa magsyota ang eksinang ito , ilang buwan narin nilang ginagawa sa bawat isa ang ganitong bagay, kaya lang lalong naging mapusok ang dalawa sa isat isa habang paulitulit nilang ginagawa ang eksperimentong yun.

Unti unting binaba ni sai ang bibig niya patungo sa ulo ng titi ni James…panay naman ang lamas ni James sa hinog na hinog nang mga suso nito.

Tuloyan ng sinubo ni sai ang ari ni James,parang hihimatayin si James sa sarap sa bawat taas-baba ng bibig ni Sai sa tarugo niya.

“ahhhhh …. sarap mo talaga babe……sige pa … pagpatuloy mo lang…ahhhhh”

Ilang beses na rin nahawakan ni Sai ang batutua ni James, every time it surprised her. Parang palaki ng palaki , lalong humahaba sa paningin niya. Di nya rin maalis sa sarili niya ang isipin na ipasok ang titing yun sa pekpek niya..si James kasi kinukulit siya lagi , na gawin yun. siya lang ang nagpigil ,dahil sa takot niya sa mga parents niya na baka siya ay mabuntis at such a young age.

“sheetttttt! sai , andyan na sasabog na….ahhhhhhh…..” , ilang saglit pa at sumabog sa bibig ni sai ang malapot na semen ng kanyang minamahal.

Di nagsayang ng oras si James , pinaupo niya si sai sa sofa , at dali daling lumuhod sa harapan nito , binaba niya sabaysabay ang skirt at panty ni Sai. kahit medyo madilim na sa sala , kita pa rin niya ang manipis na balahibo ni sai at ang namumulang pek pek nito…pinagapang niya ang mga halik niya galing tuhod hanggang umabot ito sa makinis at mabibilog na hita nito..

“ahhhhhh….ahhhhh……babe….James…..”, biglang nanigas ang katawan ni Sai , habang palapit ng palapit ang mga halik ni James sa pussy niya ….

“Sai , ibuka mo ng kunti…” , at binuka nga ni Sai ang mga paa niya….sentrong sentro sa dila ni James ang malaperlas na kuntil ng kinse anyos na kasintahan.

“ahhhhh….James…….saraaappp niyan….”, ungol ni Sai.

Ilang minuto pa , at ilang beses na rin nag orgasm si sai , bawat isa , patindi ng patindi…

“babe , ahhhhhh….sheeet…….ahhhhh….ohhhhhhh…..di ko na kaya James…shit! andyan na naman ahhhhhhhhhhhhh” , gusto ng awatin ni sai si James , pero sarap na sarap din si James sa pagkain niya sa syota niya kaya , tinagalan niya ng husto ang paglaro at pagdila sa pekpek nito..

Ilang minuto pa bago natapos si James. nagyakapan ang magkasintahan.

Nagpaalam si Sai sandali at pupunta lang ng CR para umihi at maghalf bath, si James naman naiwan sa sofa , hawak ang titgas na tigas pa rin na ari nito , libog na libog pa rin … isang ideya ang pumasok sa kukuti niya….susundan niya si Sai sa banyo…

Bungalow ang bahay nila Prof. Gino , typical sa mga subdivisions , at bago makarating si James sa banyo , madadaanan niya ang kwarto nina Prof. Gino at Sylvia.

At di sa sinasadyang pangyayari , napansin niya na medyo bukas ang pintuan nito…parang may kung anong ispiritu na humihila sa kanya na silipin ang kwarto ng magasawa.

“Shit!” , nabigla siya sa nakita niya…si Sylvia naka panty lang at sando , habang ang isang kamay nito ay nilalaro ang pekpek nya through her panty….nakatalikod si Prof. Gino kay Sylvia at malalim ang tulog…lampshade lang ang ilaw sa kwarto pero kitang kita pa rin niya .

Nakiramdam si James sa paligid , naririnig niya sa banyo na naliligo si Sai … unti unti niyang dinukot ang tigas niyang titi sa shorts niya, at mabilis nya itong sinalsal habang pinapanood niya nanay ng syota niya … at dahil medyo bitin siya sa angle niya sa may pintuan, kaya binuksan nya pa lalo . Narinig niya na lumikha ng ingay ang ginawa niyang yun, at bago pa siya makareact, nagkasalubong ang mga mata niya at ang mga mata ni sylvia…kitang kita ni sylvia ang hawak niyang titi na nakagapos pa sa kamay niya…nanglaki rin ang mga mata ni Sylvia, dahil first time nya makakita ng ganun kalaking titi…

Di makakibo si James , gusto niyang umalis sa kinaroroonan niya sa mga oras na yun , pero di nya magawa…tumayo naman si Sylvia at dahan dahan lumapit sa kanya…lalong nanigas si James…

“James….saan si Sai?”, tanong ni Sylvia kay James.

“Ha? ah…eh….naliligo po sa banyo…”, mahina niyang sagot.

“May panahon pa tayo, may katagalan maligo ang batang yan ”, lumabas si Sylvia sa kwarto at sinara ang pinto.

“James , halikan mo ako “, demand ni Sylvia sa syota ng anak nya , sabay dukot sa titi nito.

Di makapaniwala si James sa mga nangyayari , hinalikan nya ng todo ang nanay ng gf niya…habang ang mga kamay niya ay abala sa paglamas sa malalaking suso nito.

“We don’t have all the time iho , ibaba mo na itong shorts mo….”

Binaba ni James hanggang tuhod ang shorts niya , habang hinubad ni Sylvia ang panty niya..

Isinandal ni james si Sylvia mismo sa pintuan ng bedroom nito …

Itinaas ni James ang isang paa ni Sylvia, at dahan dahan naman pinasok ng titi niya ang puke nito.

“James , ang laki nito ….pasok mo na …..ahhhhhhh” , parang gustong sumigaw ni Sylvia sa kirot at sarap na dulot ng malaking titi ni James….na shocked din sya sa sarili , di nya malaman kung bat siya nagkaroon ng tapang na lapitan si James , at gawin ito..

“ohhhhhhh……ahhhhhhhh……….ahhhhhhhhh …….ang lakiiiii…….James , sheettt…..ahhhhhhh”

Naipasok ni james ng buo ang titi niya sa pekpek ng nanay ng kanyang girlfriend. parang maulol siya sa sarap ….

“Tita , ang sarap moooohhh….ahhhhhh……ummpppphhh ….”, tuloy ang halikan nila, habang labas masok ang titi kay sylvia…”

Ilang saglit pa, narining ni James na pinatay na ni sai ang tubig sa banyo, tanda na tapos na ito sa pagpaligo..

“James , bilisan mooohhh….andyan na akoooo ahhhhhhh……iho sige pa…..ahhhhhhhhhh ……ahhhhh…..jame….ahhhhhh……ohhhhhhhh ….im coming…sheeeet ito na… aahhhhhhh….”

Sabay pareho silang nilabasan , nanginginig pa ang tuhod ni James , pagkatapos….

Nginitian ni Sylvia si James, “Sa susunod gusto kong madilaan yan” sabay pasok ng panty nito sa shorts ng binata , ”remembrance mo yan, sa uulitin”. At pumasok na siya sa kwarto….

Monday, November 25, 2013

What if I killed or injured my spouse when I caught him/her in the act of committing sexual intercourse with another person?

The law provides that “any legally married person who, having surprised his spouse in the act of committing sexual intercourse with another person, shall kill any of them or both of them in the act or immediately thereafter, or shall inflict upon them any serious physical injury, shall suffer the penalty of destierro” (RPC, Article 247). The accused spouse, which could be the husband or the wife, must prove the following:

A legally married person (or a parent) surprises his spouse (or his daughter, under 18 years of age and living with him), in the act of committing sexual intercourse with another person.
He or she kills any or both of them or inflicts upon any or both of them any serious physical injury in the act or immediately thereafter.
He has not promoted or facilitated the prostitution of his wife (or daughter) or that he or she has not consented to the infidelity of the other spouse.
The accused must proved that he/she actually surprised the other spouse in flagrante delicto (or in the act of doing the deed), and that he/she killed the other spouse and/or the other party during or immediately thereafter.

Sources: Revised Penal Code; People vs. Nepomuceno, G.R. No. L-40624, 27 June 1975; Pilapil vs. Ibay-Somera, G.R. No. 80116, 30 June 1989; Ligtas vs. CA, G.R. No. L-47498, 7 May 1987; People vs. Puedan, G.R. No. 139576, 2 September 2002; People vs. Bastasa, G.R. No. L-32792, 2 February 1979

What is destierro?

Destierro means banishment or only a prohibition from residing within the radius of 25 kilometers from the actual residence of the accused for a specified length of time. It is not imprisonment.

Sunday, November 24, 2013

What is bigamy?


Bigamy is basically the act of marrying again while the first marriage is still subsisting. It is defined under Article 349 of the RPC as the contracting of a second or subsequent marriage before the former marriage has been legally dissolved, or before the absent spouse has been declared presumptively dead by means of a judgment rendered in the proper proceeding.


In a case for bigamy, all the following matters or “elements” must be shown by the prosecution:

1. The offender has been legally married.
2. The marriage has not been legally dissolved or, in case his or her spouse is absent, the absent spouse could not yet be presumed dead according to the Civil Code.
3. He/she contracts a second or subsequent marriage.
4. The second or subsequent marriage has all the essential requisites for validity.

A pending petition for annulment or a declaration of nullity of marriage does not have any effect on a criminal case for bigamy. Refer to our previous discussion on this.

How is bigamy different from adultery/concubinage?

In adultery/concubinage, the law requires that both culprits, if both are alive, should he prosecuted or included in the information. In bigamy, the second spouse could be charged only if she/he had knowledge of the previous undissolved marriage of the accused. Bigamy is a public offense and a crime against status, while adultery and concubinage are private offenses and are crimes against chastity. In adultery/concubinage, pardon by the offended party will bar the prosecution of the case, which is not so in bigamy.


What is concubinage?